Avoid Being Selfish While Being Intimate With Your Spouses
Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 3:34 pm
Avoid Being Selfish While Being Intimate With Your Spouses in shaa Allaah.
Ibn Qudaamah (rahimahullaah ta'ala) said:
“It is recommended for the man to caress and fondle his wife prior to intercourse in order to arouse her so that she would get as much pleasure from intercourse as he does…
And if he climaxes before her, it would be disliked for him to pull out until she climaxes… because that would otherwise cause her harm and prevent her from fulfilling her desires.”
[Al-Mughnee, 8/136]
Ibn Qudaamah (rahimahullaah ta'ala) said:
“It is recommended for the man to caress and fondle his wife prior to intercourse in order to arouse her so that she would get as much pleasure from intercourse as he does…
And if he climaxes before her, it would be disliked for him to pull out until she climaxes… because that would otherwise cause her harm and prevent her from fulfilling her desires.”
[Al-Mughnee, 8/136]